push possibility
Inspired by Dabi's The every day of an unemployed and Laurence's Each decision is every decision.
Laurence treating decisions as momentum, not motivation, emphasizes trying and accumulating instead of seeking readiness. This can also encourage cascades of better decisions down the line. Learning about where you want to go can help momentum redirect you to better paths. Initiatives that Dabi is taking on, like projects and online courses, show momentum and navigating wants at work. Discovering what you don't want does that too.
Speaking of what you might not want, limiting language - like how Dabi uses "I can't" and "I don't" - only takes you so far. You can adopt forms instilling more self-respect and openness to change. For example, you can transform having not done something into realizing you can start it. Pushing possibility by your words and your actions can set you up for success.