ease reconnection anxiety
Inspired by Rambling's Meeting people after not seeing them for months or years is hard.
Truly loving and respecting yourself opens up your world. Treating yourself kindly mitigates self-inflicted damage from closing doors. You can then love and respect others that much better than before.
Reconnecting with people after some time means opening yourself up to risk and vulnerability. Embracing discomfort and facing fears can set the stage for rebuilding or fortifying bridges. Instead of treating past failures as roadblocks, consider them reasons for improvement or milestones for your progress.
I view not having anything to offer someone else as one of the following: a total divergence of values and interests, or more expectedly, a lack of creativity and introspection. What makes your heart sing? How can you find people who want to tap into or supplement that energy like you do?
Your life may be better or worse than that of those you found. You can still try your best to help them, receive their help, or help each other. While you should most often come first, your stability and initiative still matter when family, friends, or others depend on you to prioritize them.
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